Welcome to my Real Life Romance segment for this month. Today, we have a special guest, multi-published author, Shannon Vannatter. She's sharing her story of her own second chance romance AND giving away a copy of one of her books. Read on to see how you could win. When I was fifteen, my father, a school board member, received a call from a desperate mother. Her son had gotten into trouble and quit school. Now, he wanted to come back and finish. This dropout, two years my senior, would be in my class. Drifting off to sleep that night, I wondered what he would be like. The next day, I saw him and he was beautiful. Most guys are handsome, this guy was more than that. All of the boys at my school wore buzz or bowl cuts. Neither was popular back then. This boy had black, naturally wavy hair to his shoulders, and the greenest eyes I’d ever seen. I decided on the spot, though quite shallowly based on looks alone, to marry him. Several other girls made the same vow and he was soon the most popular guy in school. As the months passed, the new guy finally noticed me and we began going together. We didn’t go anywhere together, since I couldn’t date until I turned sixteen. As my birthday neared, rumors began to circulate that my boyfriend drank heavily and smoked pot. Raised in church, I never tasted alcohol or tried smoking cigarettes, much less marijuana. Of course, when asked about such things, my guy denied the rumors. I refused to believe the gossip and gave him the benefit of the doubt. He was a pastor’s son. But his parents had divorced when he was ten. Though he’d been in church most of his life, had gotten saved at a young age, he didn’t attend anymore. I asked him to come with me every week. He’d promise to try, but he never made it. Finally, after months of waiting, my birthday came and my parents allowed me to date. The rumors continued and a strange aroma surrounded me whenever my guy was near. When I mustered the courage to ask about it, he told me the kid sitting behind us in class smoked a joint that morning. I think I knew, but didn’t want to know. As the school year came to a close, the truth could no longer be denied. We hashed it out, no pun intended. Given an ultimatum, drugs and alcohol or me, he didn’t pick me. I spent the summer in tears and prayerfully placed the relationship in God’s hands. The week before school started again, my ex-boyfriend came to my house. Claiming to have quit drinking and drugs, he could no longer live without me. Though cautious, I could soon tell the difference in him. Once back together, he even started attending church with me. A few months later, we went to a revival and he rededicated to Christ. We dated throughout high school, graduated together, and married a year after graduation. Seventeen years into our marriage, two life-altering things happened. My husband answered the call to preach and I got pregnant. We’re thirty-five years in now and our son is seventeen years old. My former pot head is a full time pastor and we’re still going strong. Do you have any relationships with someone you met in high school? One commenter will win a copy of Sweetheart Reunion. Award winning author, Shannon Taylor Vannatter writes contemporary Christian cowboy romance and has over a dozen published titles. A romance reader since her teens, she hopes to entertain Christian women and plant seeds in the non-believer’s heart as she demonstrates that love doesn’t conquer all—Jesus does. She gleans fodder for her fiction in rural Arkansas where she spent her teenage summers working the concession stand with her rodeo announcing dad and married a Texan who morphed into a pastor. In her spare time, she loves hanging out with her husband and son, flea marketing, and doing craft projects. Connect with her: Sweetheart Reunion: Hearts Reunited in Cowboy Country Reuniting with the Cowboy by Shannon Taylor Vannatter The Cowboy Next Door A charming cowboy moving in next door shouldn’t be bad news. But veterinarian Ally Curtis knows Cody Warren—she’d never forget the boy who left her when she needed him most. Cody is doing everything he can to show his beautiful neighbor he’s not the wild bull rider he once was, from helping her find homes for her beloved strays, to protecting her when her business is threatened. But Cody has a secret that keeps him from fully reaching out. Yet as they continue to work together to promote her shelter, he can’t keep himself from hoping that Ally might have a home for him…in her heart. Rocky Mountain Cowboy by Tina Radcliffe A Cowboy’s Second Chance The last person cowboy Joe Gallagher thought he’d see on his ranch was high school sweetheart Rebecca Anshaw Simpson. Twelve years after she married another man, she’s back as his physical therapist. But healing his body is nothing compared to guarding his heart from the woman he never forgot. There’s much the single mom would rather forget, but Becca won’t let regret and a surly rancher get in the way of her job and the chance to start over with her little girl. She has only a few weeks to make peace with her past. But Becca never expected she’d fall all over again for her first love. Purchase Link: https://www.christianbook.com/sweetheart-reunion/9781335007827/pd/007827
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Amy Petrowich
8/22/2019 11:40:48 am
Great story! Sounds similar in many ways to my daughter’s love story. She and her husband met as children. He took a rough trip through his young teen years. Came back to Christ in his later teens and they married when she was 19 and he was 21. They celebrated 13 years of marriage this month. He is a wonderful godly husband and father and a great son to us.
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8/22/2019 04:30:41 pm
Hi Amy, God can do wonderful things. My husband and your son-in-law are proof. My husband has been a wonderful Godly man since he recommitted to Christ. Sometimes, I look at him and think, Wow, how can you be that guy I met in high school?
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8/22/2019 12:02:08 pm
I was the new girl in our high school class. A very tall, slim, polite young man started walking me to class. Others told me he was sort of wild, but I think he saw me as an opportunity to share who he really was, a good Christian young man raised in a very stable family. He asked me to the senior prom, we married a year later, and we celebrated our 43rd anniversary this year!
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8/22/2019 04:32:30 pm
Hey Jenny, I'm glad you gave that guy a chance and that you and James are still living your happily-ever-after.
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Sonnetta Jones
8/22/2019 05:49:02 pm
I didn’t have a relationship in high school. I was too focus on my work and I didn’t speak to the guys in the class for two years.
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8/22/2019 07:20:35 pm
Hi Sonnetta, it's probably a good idea to avoid relationships in high school. When I think back to us marrying when I was 19 and he was 21, we were stupid kids. But we were Christians, so that made us wise beyond our years.
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